Wednesday, March 13, 2013

Progress of Growing Up

Actually, this is what most of the teens, even young adults faced..
Heartbroken and stuffs.
Well, to be frank, I faced this recently
And still it haunts me in my dream. 

For me, 
I think it's okay to let go if there's another girl jumping in my relationship,
because, she's a girl too, girls help girls, not give them hardships,
and I have faith like a friend once told me, 
every guy will have this affair thing but once their tired of their prey, 
they still come back for you caused they've seen the outside world.
Once is okay, but twice for me its not already.

Saying that I really know what love is is seiously impossible,
as I am only 17 turning 18 this October kinda teen.
I know a little but  not soo much and I still can't get it.

Why do people have to say they don't love you when they love you;
or even when they don't love you they say that they love you.
Why can't we just tell the truth like for example,
"Hey dude, I love you." sorta thing ?
That's the part I don't understand.

Why do guys or even girls sometimes have an affair when they already have a stable relationship?
Is it because they've never seen the world?

Or they just wants some excitement somehow?
Because , if you don't love someone you would break up and not just hold on to the relationship that you wouldn't wanna be in ,
Right?

Why do even boys or girls want to interfere others relationship when they already know that particular person already has another half?
No, seriously. Why is there people like this?
Where chinese they say 小三.
I do not understand this?
Are they lack of love or they just wants to try ? @@
Seriously I do not understand. =,=""   

I understand arguement , trust , care, is essential,
But what about happiness, or even fun, or a little romance?
I see that some friend of mine in facebook will try to commit suicide,
when they have encountered any hardships.
For example, his boyfriend maybe doesn't wanna accompany the girlfriend, 
because he was in the middle of a tv series.
And the girl cries and says "you don't love me" and run for the knife.
No seriously, I do not understand this kind of love.
Even when I was young I did this I wouldn't try to kill myself =P
Becasuse life isn't given by ourselves, 
It's given by our parents and God.
We cannot simply just kill ourselves?
We don't control our life, it's God who controls.

Well, I don't understand why is there playgirl or playboy ?
Isn't one enough?
One woman to help you get pregnant enough?
Or one father for the kid not enough?
Why do you need so many ? @@
And don't they date with the thought of getting married in future time
since you're all so matured and counted as young adult already.

I know I'm still in a progress of growing up,
and I would encounter a few heartbroken situations, and that's gonna hurt.
But, that's a part of growing up too ! ;)
And heartbroken doesn't means that you're finished or done,
that just simply means that God is writting something special and unique for your life =)                       

我要

各位读者网民们,大家好啊!
应该过了很久你们没有读到我笔下的网志了吧?
这一篇我决定用中文来写。
原因?? 没有为什么,纯粹想这么写。

相信各位已经注意到我的网志标题了吧?
没错,这篇网志就是关于本小姐想要的东西.

我要。。。
无论是在中六或者是师训读书也好,
总之事事顺利,努力用功,
努力向上!
考取好成绩,将来当个好的英文老师。
你们别再说我会教坏小孩了!
很多小孩可是很爱我的呢!

我要。。。
捐血!
我是认真的。
因为我觉得很有意义,可以帮助别人,
还可以觉得自己长大了 xD
而且以后还可以很自豪地向大家炫耀你捐过血!
一举三得呀!

我要。。。
Go Bald!
没错,那些说过很乐意赞助我的人,
我真的是认真的哦!
从以前就想要这么做了。
第一,因为头发长难打理,又热。
第二,觉得有意义。
第三,比较好看,像王韵壹一样,头显得比较好看。 XD
你看,又是个一举三得的想要的东西。

我要。。。
生日和家人朋友全部一起到卡拉ok去唱歌庆生。
因为我想要唱歌。
就这样。 XD

我要。。。
买手提电脑,因为感觉用“自己”的电脑写小说之类的很酷。
而且那手提电脑是我的耶!
我的,我自己的哦!
有权利决定要不要决定的那种哦!
一定很炫!XD

我要。。。
一部智能手机T^T
因为每每信息朋友,
他们第一个要求我的东西就是。。。
下载Whatsapp以及WeChat@@
试想想,我的手机不是智能的,
怎么下载呢?
再加上,一个三年级的学生,
用的手机竟然比我好!
我深受打击X.X

我要。。。
做这份工,做得久久。
而且还是不会影响我读书情况的那种。
因为我发现有个女孩很像我,很可爱 xD
而且她也和我一样,很爱笑。
外向又带点害羞的那种。
很可爱耶!
而且也有好多小男孩小女孩,
有点像我那顽皮顽皮的感觉,
但是自己一个人的时候又乖乖的。
其实很聪明,但是很懒惰。
一点即通的那种。
像我吧!娃哈哈!

我要。。。
在今年生出一个我自己满意的小说。
然后投稿。
我知道这句话我说了很久,但我保证,
今年内我一定会投稿,
看看会不会选择要我的作品。
都怪自己,还没存档就冲动的删掉部落格。
真是的! 

我要。。。
变得勇敢一点。
要是读中六,我要试着参加合唱团,
就像我二姐一样。
虽然我唱歌不好听,但要是我参加了,
去面试的话,就算不成功我也很开心。
因为至少我知道自己努力过,
勇敢,自信过。
对吧?

我要。。。
温柔一点,女孩子一点。
因为本小姐我实在是粗鲁到没有人有的地步。
所以我从今天开始,
一定要女人一点。
大家听着咯,要是看到我粗鲁的话,
可以提醒我哦!
但是先声名, 
我自然的说话方法不算哦。
因为我在做自己。 =)

好了,一上十项我要的东西已经报告完毕了。
希望大家今年有个好年,
然后不要不开心,要常常微笑。

失恋的,抬头挺胸,
多参一些像我一样的朋友,
保证你天天开心 xD
恋爱的,记住,
要是这段爱情是你当第三者抢回来的,
这样的男人你敢保证没有下一个第三者把他从你身边抢走吗?
但要是你的男人被人抢走了,
还用说,第一次可以给机会,
但第二次记住,潇洒地走人吧,
头也不会的走。
因为既然他会走,你再抢回来也没有意思。
热恋的呢,珍惜身边的另一半。
暗恋的单恋的,继续加油 XD

 好了啦!就写到这里了。
请大家多多关注我哦,不妨留下留言给点宝贵的意见。
谢谢 ;)